Things are about to change

Well, despite the long silence here on the blog some things have been happening. We have had a few contacts over the last several months. 5 since December. They have been all over the map literally and figuratively. Unfortunately they have also all been early in the pregnancy and each of them broke off communications at some point. It has been frustrating not knowing why but I take solace in knowing now instead of at the delivery.
Our most recent development is that we had our 1 year update. It is hard to believe but we have been on the list at IAC for 1 year. Although things have not developed the way that we planned (very few things do in life) we are still very much committed to this path. After 1 year the agency has given us the option to go on the last minute list. This gives us the opportunity to be matched at any time. It is not the preferred method of open adoption because there will be no time to meet before the birth. In fact, we don't get a call until after the birth. Other than that everything will happen the same but in a much shorter time frame. The birth mother will still pick a couple from the birth mother letters given to her based on her profile. The IAC will still try to create the best match for everyone involved. We will still be given the option not to meet the birth mother if it doesn't feel right. The hardest part will be deciding in 30 minutes. That's right. They will call and give us 30 minutes to decide if we want to meet the birth mother and then get to the hospital ASAP. On the plus side we would only be matched in California so we would not have far to travel and the adoption laws are pretty simple. It is daunting to think about at 1st. But really we have been ready for a year. The agency is only going to call us with birth mothers that match our profile. We have already made decisions about most of the possibilities. It will be weird going from being non parents to parents overnight but it will be exciting too. This doesn't mean that we won't be able to have a relationship with the mother after the match. Although it is less common for the birth mother to maintain contact with the adoptive family after the adoption many do stay in contact. We hope that our baby can know the woman that gives the greatest gift of our lives.
This will all become a reality on June 1. That doesn't mean we will be matched on June 2. It may take weeks or months but it could happen anytime after June 1. Yippee!
There is also still the possibility that we will be matched with a birth mother before the birth but this will now be another option.
Now, we have to go buy a car set :)
Keep praying for us.